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Chapter 23 - LINDA CHANGESLinda's change was slow.

At first performative.

Apology because court.

Therapy because Jason required it for expanded family time.

Then something shifted.

She wrote me:

I thought motherhood gave me permanent authority over Jason.

Interesting.

When you became his wife, I treated your boundaries as disrespect because I did not know who I was if he stopped needing me.

Similar to so many family stories.

Fear of irrelevance.

Then:

I used Owen to justify behavior that was actually about me.

Better.

I did not reply immediately.

Eventually:

Thank you for acknowledging that.

Nothing more.

At Owen's seventh birthday, Linda asked me:

“May I hug you?”

I said no.

She nodded.

“Okay.”

May you like

That mattered more than paragraphs.

She survived the boundary.

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