Chapter 23 - LINDA CHANGESLinda's change was slow.

At first performative.
Apology because court.
Therapy because Jason required it for expanded family time.
Then something shifted.
She wrote me:
I thought motherhood gave me permanent authority over Jason.
Interesting.
When you became his wife, I treated your boundaries as disrespect because I did not know who I was if he stopped needing me.
Similar to so many family stories.
Fear of irrelevance.
Then:
I used Owen to justify behavior that was actually about me.
Better.
I did not reply immediately.
Eventually:
Thank you for acknowledging that.
Nothing more.
At Owen's seventh birthday, Linda asked me:
“May I hug you?”
I said no.
She nodded.
“Okay.”
May you like
That mattered more than paragraphs.
She survived the boundary.
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